For the sanctity of marriage in Islam,
*“And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect.”*
— Dr. Mustafa Khattab, the Clear Quran
Allah created the partner for you.
Adam was lonely, so Allah created Eve with his rib.
The Hadith explains that Ribs are curved and winded to protect our heart.
Ribs must cover the heart.
Why woman?
Because couples with the same sex argue often.
Men are weak but cannot cry.
Women can accept to be silent and stop insulting others.
Allah said,
“If you two are driven out of the paradise,
you get yourself in trouble, Adam (Without mentioning Eve.)”
For the rights and obligations of husband and wife in Islam, Muhammad (ﷺ) helped cleaning the house, cooking, washing dishes, and wiping shoes (these were not his duties, but he did them anyway).
When Muhammad was arguing with his wives, they together asked him to contribute more money to sustain the family.
Muhammad said he had none.
He also said:
“In the name of Allah, I hereby make an oath that I won’t come home in a month.”
That means women have the right to ask something from their husband and the husband has the right to leave the endlessly demanding wife.
※Duty of female
Businesses between you and your husbands should not enter into the ears of others (the same rule applies to the men).
For example, Noah and Lud, whose wives betrayed them and fell into the hell by committing the crime of gossiping about businesses between them and their husbands.
Chapter 4
Male are responsible for female because of the duty that he should do.
If the husband feeds his wife, he would be rewarded.
Serving them water also counts.
In Islam, there is nothing futile.
The Hadith: Judgement Day: The first thing weighed on the scale shall be the payment or the spending that the man uses to do on his wife and his family.
Only generous man they treat female well.
Only mean people they treat female rude.
Female: The female who pray 5 times per day, fast Ramadan, protect herself not to betray husband and obey her husband, will get into paradise from any gate she wants.
A woman pass away, her husband satisfied with his wife. She will get into paradise. Be patient.
Female's duty : provide relaxation at home.
THIS WOMEN WILL ENTER PARADISE
'Any woman who dies when her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise.'
Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
[Ibn Majah- Vol. 3, Book 9,
Hadith 1854]
- Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ)
- Taipei Grand Masjid
Related info.
THE GOVERNING PRINCIPLES
OF ANCIENT CHINA
★ There were reasons why the sage kings of Xia, Shang and Zhou dynasties loved and respected their wives and children. For the wife, she was the key lady attending to
matters related not only to the rites of remembrance of the ancestors, but also to the king’s parents, as well as to the education of his heirs. As for the children, they were the heirs to the king’s legacy. So how could the king not be respectful of his wife and children? A king therefore will not be disrespectful toward anybody. With regard to the virtue of respect, a person will first respect his own self, for his life is an extension of his parents. How can he not be respectful of himself? Not respectful of one’s self is tantamount to hurting one’s parents. Hurting one’s parents amounts to hurting one’s root, and when the root is damaged the branches will die off subsequently. Since the commoners and the king both have these three things in common—own self, wife and children, they will naturally follow the king’s example. As the king respects his own self he extends this respect to other people. As he loves his children he extends this love to the children of other people. And as he respects his wife he extends this respect to the wives of other people. When a king can manage these three matters well, this profound and far-reaching education will then be able to spread to the whole world.
Scroll 10: Kong Zi Jia Yu
★
A man should not forget the friends he made when he was poor. A wife who has shared her husband’s hardships must never be cast aside.
Scroll 22: Hou Han Shu, Vol. 2
★[...]Husband and wife are bonded in a relation of gratefulness, but when sincerity is absent, they will end up leaving each other. [...]
Scroll 48: Ti Lun
Resource
https://daydaynews.cc/zh-tw/international/amp/1003586.html (穆斯林為什麼要戴頭巾？| 地球知識局 | 天天要聞)
وَمِنْ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَـَٔايَـٰتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
https://quran.com/30
Things Easily Missed in Marriage • Ramadan [2012/08/05] Taipei Grand Masjid (YouTube - Hadziq 哈明飛)
Ramadan course in Taipei Grand Masjid. It was presented by Omar Ayesh and translated subsequently by Hanan Lu.
淨空法師：女孩子的服裝穿著要合格
http://big5.xuefo.net/nr/article25/254331.html
https://mamibuy.com.tw/talk/article/103970 (女人責任重大,這個家庭有沒有好的後代完全靠你 | 媽咪拜MamiBuy)
Education as the First Priority - Master Chin Kung
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